Romantic relationships are an influential part of our lives, in fact, for many of us; they are the pillars of our lives. Sexual intimacy has a huge impact on the success of our romantic relationships.
While we have many examples and materials which give us ideas about planning a date or giving gifts to our partners. But we are often at a loss of ideas when it comes to the act of lovemaking in bed. Especially men have a hard time figuring out ways to make their female partners feel loved and cherished during the act of lovemaking.
This confusion springs from the clear difference between the needs of men and women, while a man considers sexual intimacy as the height of his relationship, women often see it as a medium to strengthen their emotional intimacy.
If you love and cherish your girlfriend or wife, it is only natural to want to express those feeling while you make love to her. And there are various ways that help you in enjoying your own sexual experience with her along with making her feel like your queen in the bed.
Setting the Mood Right:
While it is only natural to be ready for sexual activity whenever the opportunity presents itself, it does not work that way for the women. There are lots of things going on in a woman’s mind and it takes her more time to get herself ready for a passionate lovemaking session.
You can help her to get ready for such activity by making the environment and her schedule more comfortable for her. If you have kids, it will be great if you could put them to bed early or arrange for some baby sitters while you spend some alone time with your wife. If your ladylove works till late and has to come home and work around the chores, that she will be less likely to have energy left for lovemaking. Try to do chores for her, or go out for dinner. The idea is to take away her chores or tasks that generally keep her busy and engaged during this time.
If you create more time for her where she can relax and just be herself at the end of the day, not only will she be pleased with you, but she will be more open to trying some new things in bed.
Create a Space for Passionate Lovemaking:
As a man, you may not mind having some action on the floor, but women are not like that, they really appreciate efforts put in the settings of the lovemaking act.
If you are planning to make love to her in your bedroom, make the place look super comfortable and clean for lovemaking. Dim the lights, and have the temperature a bit lower than usual, as low temperatures and dimmed lights are often reported to be romantic for a woman. Put in some music if your girl likes it or decorate your bed with rose petals if that’s her thing.
The goal is to create a space in which your wife or your girlfriend can completely relax and focus only on you and the amazing physical sensations that you are going to offer her. Pay attention to details, women love to notice details, and a good room fresher or some flowers by the bedside may not be a big deal to you, but for a woman, they mean a lot!
A happier woman will reciprocate more passionately in your bed!
Spend Enough Time for Foreplay:
Almost every man knows about foreplay, it is the act of expressing love to your partner physically before the main act of the intercourse; it’s the appetizer that makes you ready and excited for the main course before it is served.
But unfortunately, not many men spend enough time in this vital sexual activity which is guaranteed to drive your partner crazy with desire for you.
If you are not engaging in foreplay with your partner, start today, it will change your life.
When you are engaging in foreplay don’t just kiss her on her lips and rush to the main course, take your time in this act. Every woman has different erogenous zones parts, and as a husband, it is your duty to find out more about her erogenous zones. While having foreplay, touch different parts of her body that don’t necessarily fall under the sexual organs such as her neck, her ankles, or even her back. Her reaction to your touches will tell you which one gives her the most pleasure. If you are not sure about understanding your partner’s reaction, you can ask her straightway.
During foreplay, let her reactions such as moans or encouraging words guide you to your next step, spend as much time as you can during this activity. If you do it right, she will be begging you to proceed!
Make the Lovemaking Process Pleasurable for Both of You:
It often happens that men get carried away during the lovemaking process and they forget that their partner’s satisfaction is as important as their own.
Some men make the lovemaking process so short that their partner gets no chance to enjoy the act and get the orgasms that she deserves. This may be due to sexual dysfunction known as premature ejaculation which can be treated using medication such as Priligy, Cenforce 100, Fildena and Vidalista.
When you make love to your partner, treat her body with respect, to not get violent or hurt her in any way, and under no circumstances should you force her to do something that she does not want to do.
It is true that there are many different ways to make love, but if your partner is not comfortable with it, don’t force or pressure them to do it. Make lovemaking an act of emotional connection where you adore her body and keep her pleasure above your crazy fantasies if you want her to feel like your queen.
Don’t ever Skip the Afterplay:
It is sad to hear that many men don’t count Afterplay as an essential part of sexual activity; they see orgasm as the end of their sexual activity. But that’s not how it works for women, as a man you must understand that in the lovemaking process a woman is surrendering herself completely to you, and it leaves her in a vulnerable position both physically and emotionally.
Making loving gestures to her after the act is over strengthens her trust in you; it allows her to feel safe and protected. As a man and a husband, it is your ultimate duty to make her feel loved, cherished, and protected after the act of lovemaking.
Talk to her if you can, tell her how much you love and adore her. Cuddle her, stroke her hairs, or simply hold her close for a little while. The Afterplay can be of just 10 minutes if you want as long as you make her feel emotionally connected to you.
These are some insights into treating your wife in a way that maximizes her pleasure and your own satisfaction in your sexual life. Allows remember that men and women have different needs, treat her for the woman she is and respect her desires and no that as her man, it is your duty as well as honour to please her sexually.